Manage the social media onslaught

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Social Media

Image: DMN

Social media has been channelling my mother lately:

Why don’t you talk to Brandon? He’s a nice boy.

Go and see your Grandma and tell her about how well you are doing at school.

Why don’t you play with Connie? You’ll have fun together. 

Mr. Smith is a nice man. Go and talk to him. You can tell him you won the relay. 

Why don’t you want to go out? You can’t sit and read all day. It’s no good for you. 

 

There was always this compulsion to be sociable, to play with your friends and to get outside. Then the pressure to announce your recent achievements. From my mother’s point of view  all she wanted was for me to be happy, to be sociable and to do well. She wanted me to have manners, knowledge and social connections.

Social media is different in that it also wants to tell you what to read, what to believe and what to value. There is the pressure to follow and connect with people and there is a pressure to like things and be friends. It’s becoming annoying because there is a level of manipulation there we don’t quite understand or we don’t want to understand because there is a feeling we are no longer driving our choices and thoughts. It’s not my mum. There is something more to it and that is largely driven by branding and  research. Social media is used a lot to support other media and research papers. It is also used to drive an economy.

So what do you do? You take control. Bloomberg had an article Try breaking  your  media filter bubble which gives you three ways of setting your social media feeds straight. Barry Ritzholz picked that up and developed the idea so you can manage your feed but also challenge yourself and your thinking with regard to social media in his article Re-engineer your media diet. This article looks more about how you can constructively balance the bias and your own bias. The image on this post comes from DMN and their article  explains how important it is to branding that companies engage with social media and create real connections with people. It’s not new. It is what the corner store and the haberdasher were about. Small, family owned businesses used to engage with their communities and build their customer loyalty from who they were and how they conducted their businesses. It’s just done in a different way now.

The article which prompted me to write this post , though, was about the Facebook friend recommendations. Social media sites do come up with recommendations supposedly based on your activity and people you follow. Happens on Twitter , Instagram and LinkedIn and I have found some good people worth following and people have found me.  They are not Facebook , though. Facebook is seen as your home on the net and is generally more personal. People are finding Facebook a bit more disruptive these days because it throws up random memories which can open old wounds as well as create joy. There is no option to opt out. The friend recommendations have never bothered me on Facebook but I can see why they would bother others. In the end you want to add people who support you and who have a positive impact on your feed. Knowing people is not a reason to have them on Facebook. Amelia Tait’s article :

People you may know: is Facebook’s friend-finding algorithm putting you at risk?

is worth reading because it explains the security aspects of Facebook and then how the algorithm is working. I don’t have my phone number on Facebook and I don’t use a significant email address. I don’t add people I don’t know and I don’t feel obliged to keep people or sites on Facebook if they disrupt my feed. With social media you have to learn to block, unfriend, mute, unfollow, hide and do whatever you need to do so that your feed has a positive input into your life and adds to you. Breaking your media filter bubble is a must do these days.

Social Media Makeover

social media makeoverIt doesn’t matter whether you are a personal trainer, like Miguel Carrasco, an entrepreneur, an organisation, teacher, student or who you are. We all need to make the most of social media.  So far I have done two of these free tutorials which are offered and it was interesting to see that even Miguel Carrero takes a break from social media for a while to get a different perspective. We do live in a connected world. We are able to build up our connections if we want to. It is interesting that he recommends, that no matter what , you keep adding content. I  blogged a while ago about content being king. He might call himself the smart ass trainer but  he is well credentialed :

Miguel Carrasco is a 3x Elite Beachbody Coach. He is also the 3x Top Canadian Coach, 2x Top Male Coach, Executive Leader, and a member of the Millionaire’s Club. He has helped over 30 personally sponsored coaches reach the rank of Diamond or above, and has 5 of his own personally sponsored coaches in the Top 100 of the company.

Smart Ass Fitness Academy

There is nothing smart Alec about these tutorials. They are very good examples of agile thinking and a positive mindset.  Miguel talks you through the steps and ideas very carefully but with a lot if energy and enthusiasm. You learn because he is focused but personable. From the two tutorials I have already got a list of things I want to do and try.  It’s 2017 and we have a real world image and we need to ensure we build a strong online image too since so much of what we do can be accomplished online. One is not better than the other. They complement each other and it’s good to have a structured way of approaching your online presence.

Grow social media

Growing social media sites isn’t really hard. You don’t have to be a business or an entrepreneur to build your online social media image.  There is a knack to it , though. It is important to be yourself, or at least, a genuine part of yourself. You are projecting an image so it’s a case of deciding which part of you you wish to project. There are also images which always work. Yes, the adorable kittens and puppies, but also images and videos which strike a chord in humanity or which make people see things quite differently. When you are on social media sites then the social is important. It is also important to connect your social media sites to a blog /blogs/ Facebook page. A lot of people now have a public Facebook page which is not their original /personal Facebook page. That seems to be working well. When you make a blogpost you can advertise it on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat/Pinterest. Some people also email content too. Social media and blogging can be part of creating a very solid online presence and image. I don’t connect my own Facebook page to anything else and am currently thinking about whether to make a public Facebook page. So what are my tips?

  1. Be friendly
  2. Make positive and genuine comments
  3. Follow a variety of people
  4. Make sure your images are clear (400 x 400    pixels approx)
  5. Work methodically on the image you want to project
  6. Get the right hashtags and notice what is current popular hashtag format
  7. Post regularly
  8. Link your sites to a blog
  9. Look carefully at what you like and you react to and use those ideas
  10. Be helpful

Helene inbetween has some detailed and very helpful ideas for building social media sites.

Download Facebook Information

It’s not on my Facebook account yet, but the downloading information feature is coming to everyone’s account. It means you can have a copy of what you have stored on Facebook – photos, videos, links, messages. It would be a pretty big file. The advantage for me would to be to have a copy of my photos. Do I want all my inbox messages? I don’t think so, but maybe for old times’ sake. It will show as an HTML file as far as I can tell . There isn’t a possibility yet of modifying that information and then uploading it again. That would be a handy feature so Facebook could be kept current, but it has been a great big database tracking this and that, so , until now there hasn’t even been an option of us owning that information, leave alone changing it. The feature will come up under your Facebook account settings. I am curious to know how long it will take to download! Tech Crunch gives more information here. I’d like to think there would be an option coming to modify and upload a new version of information .People change, kids grow up, it would be nice to let people improve and enhance their profile particularly when online profiles have taken on a new force in the scheme of things.

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